I must admit I went through this once. And yes it was a really happy-go-lucky kindda relationship, all the way was like if you are free or bored you can always find him to spare your time. But, later i found out myself is not suitable with this kindda relationship, he left to California and I do miss him sometimes. I bet he dosen't..people around me said he is a player. He gave me nothing but with some memories with him. He is really sucha funny guy, he makes me laugh a lot. At time, I was so scared I might fall for him, but I know I shouldn't. Because he has said "Do not fall for me till I come back to Malaysia"..lol how funny was this right? and he always bullied me, 'noob' was what he called me all times cos :<
What more I can say is, girls will always be the wasted/giver ones in this relationship cos you gotto give in to makes it happening (though it is for a short period of time). To be honest, we did not do much in ours, cos I am kindda "not open minded" to give in so much and thank god he is not so aggressive for it.
Sometimes, I do miss you a lot Victor.
Hope you are doing well over there. Probably we will not meet again.
Thanks for the memories we shared :>
Do not think so much. If he's yours, no matter how time flies or whatever obstacles you face, at the end of the day he'll still be yours. If not, no matter how hard you tried, it will never work out. So, just follow the flow and do not rush into a relationship just because you have seen the good side of him. Remember, (even if he's interested also), people will make themselves 'good' until they obtain their objective, so you must not fall easily to people just because you had only seen one side of them. Lastly, have a good day. =D
ReplyDeleteBtw, im the same person who commented from your previous posts. Tq.
Hey, thanks for the reading. Your advise is noted, thank you. You seem like a wise person and that's good. Hope you will achieve on what you aim for :)
ReplyDeleteThank you. Hope you'll achieve what you aim for too... But, if certain things are predestined, we must learn how to let go sometimes. Then, who knows, if we let go, perhaps we can get something better than we wish to get previously? Looking forward for your future posts. =)
ReplyDeletep.s. i am not a wise person, even i myself make mistakes too, in fact i think that the mistakes i make is more than others (sometimes unforgivable) but every mistakes i make, i learnt from them and do my best not to repeat them again =)